What do you think about the difference between falling in love when you are ready and when you are lonely?
Actually, I've never thought about this matter before hearing experience of my friends and acquaintances. but on second thought, I realized that I've had some kind of meetings too. I didn't know that I was doing like that at that time.
Sometimes people have said goodbye without knowing it might be difficult to meet someone like that. Because ,at that time, we are too young to realize that true is not always behind us. in addition, it was when we weren't especially lonely.
However once you’ve felt true love, you yearn for the same thing. you might to try to find it again. as a result You become lonely. You wish you fall in love deeply. but as you know, it's not easy to find someone who makes you feel deep love. Then you get tired to seek sincere love, and then you might fall in love with someone unworthy of it.
Because we can't forget the perfect moment we spend with the person who we truly loved. Then we spend time looking for our next fix. at first when beginning love with someone new, we actually believe we are in love. but it's more likely mistakes we made. we are disappointed 'cause he or she is not someone who you looked for.
What I want to say is that we would better to meet someone when we are ready, not when we are lonely. loneliness might make you feel pain. but if you meet some person only because you are lonely, it is possible to make poor decisions.
if you meet someone when you are ready, this is preferable i think :)
