Does being the ‘Cool Girl’ make you Happy?

Does being the ‘Cool Girl’ make you Happy?

I've met many girls  who want to be the 'Cool Girl'.

They told me that they've got a lot of hurt from guys, so they don't want to get any more. and the girls decided to be a 'Cool Girl'. anyway, who is the cool girl you imagine?

Maybe you think that Being the Cool Girl means hot and gorgeous woman who doesn't care about what her boyfriend is doing behind her. 

The cool girl is never obsessed by her boyfriend if there is a doubtful point.

what do you think about this.

does the cool girl look happy or you wanna be like her?

i don't think so. it seems that the guy going out with the 'Cool Girl' is maybe happy.'Cause there isn't anything bugging him.

But i guess that the 'Cool girl' doesn't feel happy.

becoming the cool girl might looks great.

however if you become like the girl, you might feel lonely. 

because you have to solve the problems with your boyfriend alone to show 'I am a cool girl'.

I am talking not about obsessing but about happiness.

I don't want you to endure everything alone to look like the 'Cool Girl'.

if you would like to be the cool girl just to show you are the cool one, and it makes you happy, i can't make you stop. but i just hope you to be not a just 'Cool Girl. just looking like cool girl doesn't solve any problems you have in your mind.